The biggest day in every couple's life; a
synergy of love, romance, organization, stress and blind panic! Here at Mid-Ulster Limos we're well versed in
the protocol of the big day and present below some hints and tips which we hope
will help to ensure a wedding that is
as successful as it is memorable.
Failing
to plan is planning to fail...
Successful weddings are often the result of one thing: Organisation. Here at Mid-Ulster Limos, we advise couples to do
what they can, when they can, to avoid the panic and stress of last minute
rushing. Many couples have found that budgeting a couple hours every weekend from
approximately one year in advance of the wedding is a successful route and ensures that elements such as invitations, booklets,
flowers e.t.c. are taken care of. The ultimate goal, really, is to make certain that you actually
enjoy your wedding day as much as
possible; it's alarming to note just how many brides and grooms, brides in particular, don't physically
enjoy the day itself, as a result of worrying about tasks which might have been
taken care of more efficiently with sufficient prior planning. We know in today's busy world
that's not always possible, but where feasible, plan in advance.
As a limousine
hire company, we know that many brides will have envisaged, often from a very young age, the precise aesthetic and
feel of their dream wedding and of
course the transportation is oftentimes
central to that vision. At Mid-Ulster
Limos, we are certain to have a limousine to suit all occasions. For traditional
weddings, our vintage Excalibur limo is
a perfectly quaint and elegant stretched limousine, which will add a touch of
class, both to your day and your wedding album.
Young wedding couples or those preferring a more modern approach often fall head over heels
for our Chrysler limousine; a sleek, robust vehicle
which cuts a formidable dash, delivering bride and groom in style. Our Lincoln town car is a classic stretched, from what is arguably the leading
manufacture of stretched limousines.
Best
man speeches
Nervous best men should take comfort from the fact that a Northern Ireland wedding will most likely be one of the
most sympathetic audiences he's ever likely to encounter. Lovable rogues, and shy
retiring types alike will witness a groundswell of support as they take to the
mic. Our advice is to seize upon that credit and secure a laugh, no matter how
small, as early as possible, just to help settle the inevitable wedding speech jitters. That said, not
everyone is a comedian and you really shouldn't feel under pressure to perform
a stand up routine; warm heartfelt speeches can often resonate with an audience
just as much, if not more than a laugh-a-minute onslaught. Avoid lowering the
tone at all costs, and although a gentle roasting of the groom is par for the course; genuinely embarrassing your friend or
his new wife is a non starter, regardless of how well you think a crowd may
react. It's important to remember the stature of the occasion its importance to
the couple, and if you are a single man yourself, bare in the mind that today's
groom could well be next year's best
man!
Recite your best man speech in front of friends or family where possible, take
their criticisms onboard and aim for a running time of 5 - 10 minutes maximum.
Use your discretion to ascertain if you speech has the content to sustain 10
minutes, be honest and edit yourself if not; short and sweet is far more favorable
than meandering and mediocre.
If
you plan to recite your best man speech without aids, do in any event, bring a hardcopy, or prompts at least, in case
the occasion proves a little more than anticipated. Always have a graceful exit
strategy at your disposal, in the event that things aren't going quite as
planned. Remember to toast the bride,
bridesmaids, flower girl, page boy,
and any individuals worthy of a special mention, but above all try to savour the
event. It often feels more akin to a penance than a blessing to be asked to be best man at a wedding reception, but
it really is one of the biggest honours that one man can bestow upon another!
Wedding
Reception - The seating plan Nitemare!
Many brides and grooms fret over the planning of
wedding table lists, and it's understandable,
since even the most agreeable of families will have it's strained relationships
somewhere or other; after all, it's simply human nature. However, it's best to
resist the temptation to allow wedding guests to sit wherever they choose. Couples who opt for this method of seating sometimes
find that quieter guests, or those who have traveled, can be isolated, whilst
the more colorful characters amass around one or two specific tables. Privately
acknowledge any little frictions that may exist, plan for them and spread your wedding guests strategically, mixing
gregarious couples with those who are unfamiliar with the family circles;
everyone's day will benefit as a result!

